User blog comment:LongClawTiger/Panem is a dark place.../@comment-3221594-20110930152812

I did speak with Nikki last night and have agreed to give this another chance. My heart doesn't want to lose so many friends (especially given the date), despite my head throwing up red flags all over the place.

If this is going to work, I would like to know what is going on and feel like I am being given a chance to help. I realize there are a great many things that only the admins can do, but on a project this big, there have to be small things that can be delegated to myself and the others that want to see this succeed.

If you are feeling stressed, I don't want to be snapped at. I want to know what is going on so I can help cheer you up or at the very least not step on any landmines that will make things worse. When I make suggestions, take it for what it is, just a suggestion. It is not a mandate. I don't need to see it implemented, if ever. If you like the idea, put it as number 5462 on the to-do list or something like that and I am fine with that. Just don't bite my head off for opening my mouth.

If you are busy with something, just say what you are working on and I will give you whatever space you need to get it done. I understand busy. What I don't understand is when people say they are busy and ignore me and then seem to be actively spending time and actively RPing with others. As Nikki pointed out, there may very well be a good reason for that. But if I don't know the reason, I am going to feel ignored and hurt.